Hey, just came back from khutbah jumaat just now and it was a speech on valentines day,
particularly interesting but ha3 -_-" i slept near the very end...
but it got me thinking...
islam mudah dan praktikal, janganlah kita mempermudahkan ia pula...
dan didalam islam, tiada istilah haram untuk mempamerkan rase kasih sayang diantara insan,
cuma perlulah melalui saluran yang betul...
and i was wondering...
saluran yang betul ialah melalui perkahwinan...
tetapi, apabila kita sudah ada hati kepada jantina yang berlawanan, itu merupakan fitrah,
lelaki diciptakan untuk tertarik kepada kaum hawa, manakala wanita pula tertarik kepada kaum adam,
jika difikir-fikirkan kembali...
saye ... x taulah...
kalau jalan dah ada untuk kita lalui...
kenapa kita di halang untuk mengambil jalan itu?
adakah sistem dunia yang menghalangnya? ataupun pemahaman kita?
i was questioning furiously inside my mind...
during our prophets era, education was emphasized but not towards our extent now, we learaned what we are interested in... not what was set up by the country...
i mean... is there sumthing wrong in getting married at 18? it would defy the norm of our society, but isn that the way of islam to show our expression of love to the opposite gender, and you need to bear the responsibility for sure, to support your loved ones? you can still study as usual, perhaps stay with your parents still but it would definitely curb all the gejala sosial happening around us wouldnt it? If we were allowed to get married sooner, teens dating would already be a legit couple bonded by marriage. The society wouldnt think that is wrong? you know where im going ryte? To think how much problem we could solve...
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n_n me and my carzy mind...
it wouldnt the sistem of our country and our society...
it would just make u be dicriminated around...
just my silly thoughts above...
but im curious to the answers..
hahahahaha xD
~ aal izz well ~
aha. but then, cuba fikir, if most of the parents allowed their children to get married as early as 18 and with no strong financial support, tak rasa ke benda tu akan lead to more divorces, asyik gaduh kata tak cukup duit la, apa lah. and gejala sosial akan lebih meningkat due to anak-anak terbiar sebab mak bapak sibuk cari duit to feed the children, if kalau kahwin tetiba dapat anak lah kan. ok, if you want to say zaman dulu boleh, kenapa sekarang tidak, because now, every single thing does need money.
ReplyDelete* no offence ya salman. lama dah tak gaduh2 opinion cam ni. just want to provoke you ;). aku mintak maaf awal2 eh. heee
hehehe none taken syiqin ;) aq pun dah lame x wat cm nie...
ReplyDeletetrue2, even by ur statement itself ... zaman sekarang needs money, who established that? a government ryte, so isnt it like to a large extent that what i say is true? we , globally , has established a belief that says that money is number 1. You cant be succesfull without money. Money makes the world goes round?
i would also like to say, no strong financial support? who says that? our edu system says that u nid education to get a job? the more educated you are, the higher the price of your pay check?
if that is the case, doesn't skill counts? i believe that you dont need education, but you do need knowledge, with knowledge u can do almost anything. n_n ha3 yeah sosial problems would then increase due to misundestandings but hey,
when your young and in love, everythings great. The problems would then only arise from not understanding. Knowing one's responsibility. Its important that if you love someone you would be ready to bear full responsibility for that person, you cant complain. Syarat2 kahwin pun dah tetap, ciri2 suami dan isteri, x mustahil untuk di kecapi dalam waktu remaja jika kita tau ape yang perlu di buat...
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keep it spicy syiqin ngeh3 xDDD